GoodandGettingBetter

Bobbn' N Noddn'

2008-10-12T20:06:00.000-07:00

At a Business Briefing (we don't call it a 'meeting', because no one wants to go to a 'meeting'), there is a specific etiquette.
1. Half Butt rule (sit on the front of your seat)
2. Bob and Nod your head to show agreement and excitement
3. Laugh at the jokes you've heard every week
4. Take notes, but don't look down
5. Clap extra loud to make up for the prospects in the room that aren't clapping
6. If someone starts talking give them a really dirty look, they could be distracting your most important prospect ever
7. Wear deodorant, the music can really get going, and you'll want to be prepared to dance
8. If you ride a bike to the BB you should take your helmet off so that everyone behind you can see. I didn't think about this until after being to 6 meetings, then my upline asked me to take it off.

When I took it off and she saw my black hair she said that I should dye it blonde, because black is 'unapproachable'. So tonight I will become a blondy so that I can be more successful.

Prospect Scavenger Hunt

2008-10-10T19:02:00.000-07:00

Since I got kicked out of the local mall, we had to go to the next closest mall to do the "Prospect Scavenger Hunt". It was AWESOME! It really got me out of my comfort zone.

How to play Prospect Scavenger Hunt:
1. Make a list of random things about people ie; woman in a blue dress, man with a mustache, poor person, cell phone sales clerk (they are always the record breakers in Network Marketing), 3 people in Banana Republic (there are always sharp people in there), etc.

2. Go to the mall and make contact with as many people on the list as you can.

This was so scary at first, the first person laughed at me and told me it was a scam and something about calling security. I ran to a table in the back of the food court and cried. My trainer found me and reminded me "Some will, some won't, so what, move on". So I jumped back in, next on my list was the cell phone clerk.

Me: You look like a sharp guy, ever wanted to have additional income?
Him: Yeah.
Me: I have a DVD that explains how you can make this happen, can I call you and see what you think about it?
Him: Sure
Me: Oh, great, you're going to love it! Here you go.

I left without getting his number, but my number is on the DVD so I'm sure he'll call.

I was so excited to get through the rest of my list! All of a sudden a security guard approached, with my trainer in restraints and told me I had to leave immediately. I guess doing a business seminar over the intercom at Macy's isn't allowed. I don't understand why not, it's like the mall is against allowing people to achieve their wildest dreams.

On the way out we accidently dropped hand fulls of business cards all over the floor. I dropped over 100 so I know at least 10 will call, (the 10% rule). So, in the end it was a success. Some exposures are better than none!

The SECRET Blows my Mind!

2008-10-08T09:40:00.000-07:00

If you haven't ever watched The Secret you haven't started living. I was reborn this past week after watching the secret, I have committed myself to watching it first thing when I wake up and then right before I go to bed. Someone told me that if I do that ALL my dreams will come true. I have started 'visualizing' my Pink Hummer and picking out what helicopter my husband will look best in.

Sticky notes every where!!! I got a pink pad of sticky notes and drew a picture of my Hummer and stuck them on my front door (both sides), bathroom mirror, under the toilet seat (that one always really reminds me, and then I have a few moments to sit in quiet and focus on visualizing), on my car dash, in my fridge, above my sink, and I made a necklace with a toy hummer, that I spray painted pink, and I will wear it everyday until I get my Pink hummer.

I ordered the vinyl lettering to go on it that says "Mommy Millionaire". So, not only am I visualizing but I have taken 'action'!

I ran out of people to call, so I'm just focusing on building my list right now. My motto right now is "Some will, some won't, so what, move on."

THE SECRET'S NOT A SECRET ANYMORE! Move over world, here I come!!!!

Questions with a DUMB FACE!

2008-09-23T18:41:00.000-07:00

Out of this WORLD training last night!

I have been wondering how to overcome objections and low and behold last night was the answer to all my questions.

Objections are just reasons people actually should DO the business.

When someone says, "I don't have the money to sign up".

You say, "Don't have the money?" and look at them with a dumb face, making them feel dumb.
Then they will sign up, because they will realize that if they don't even have the money to sign up then they really NEED to do this business.

Them: "I need to check with my spouse"

You: "Check with your spouse?" -Dumb face- Their spouse would thank them for getting their own business!

Them: "I'm going to Africa on a mission and this business is against my religion."

You: "Going to Africa on a mission and this business is against your religion?" -Dumb face- Obviously they need to change religions if getting rich is against theirs, and then they wouldn't be going on a mission.

Them: "My husband is a billionaire, I don't like your business, get out of my house."

You: "Your husband is a billionaire, you don't like the business, get out of your house?" -Dumb Face- This would probably never happen, but if you know a billionaire, they are sure to have an incredible amount of contacts of sharp people. Make sure you get their list! It's all about networking.

Practice your dumb face in the mirror. You want to make sure you can make them feel dumb enough to sign up and still look professional at the same time.

Do what you love and never work a day in your life!!!

Quitter!

2008-09-21T18:33:00.000-07:00

It’s been a crazy week. My team quit. Tami’s husband got accepted to Harvard Law School and they have to move. I spent 4 hours at her house trying to explain to her that she could make way more money with Xui Amquinox than her husband ever will in law. Plus, who wants all the student loans when you could just pass out DVD’s, talk to people at the grocery store and become a millionaire?!!!

She eventually told me that she never wanted to do it in the first place; she just didn’t want to hurt my feelings when I offered to pay the $300 entry fee and monthly customer fee. She said she just wanted all the free products and if I was going to sign people up for her then ‘why not’.

Some people just don’t get it.

Now she's going to end up just working part time to put her husband through school, with her kids in Day Care all day and living paycheck to paycheck. Only the top 1% of people in law school actually make enough to pay off their student loans. So, GOOD LUCK, you're going to need it. Quitters never WIN. Once a quitter always a quitter. I don't want quitters on my team anyway. I'm a WINNER!

I took a few days off to work on personal development. Now I’m at a level 10 and ready to ‘SIZZLE’!

I’m sure I’ll make enough this week to pay me Dad back the money he loaned me for my sign up and Tami’s sign up fee.

Team Cheer

2008-09-17T21:00:00.000-07:00

When I was at convention different teams had the coolest cheers. Anytime someone from their team crossed the stage a whole section would yell out things like;

Shark Shark!

Sometimes the person on the stage would yell, "Get Paid" and the crowd would respond "DAILY!!!".

Another one was, "UP" (person on stage) "and to the RIGHT" (crowd)

"Got"... "Freedom"(crowd)

Then of course..."Show me" Crowd, "THE MONEY!!!"

The cheers supercharged the energy and helped everyone's commitment level go straight to a level 10 or even higher. So I've decided to start my own team cheer.

It will be "Ninja"...."Power" (crowd) Our cheer will stand out though, we'll all do a Ninja move like a kick or a karate chop.

I can't wait 'til I'm standing on stage and say "Ninja" and I then hear half of the stadium yell back in unison "Power". Maybe I can get them to play the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle them song while our team is walking across stage, that would be AMAZING!

Ninja's are so strong, brave, determined, they do whatever it takes to overcome their obstacles. If me and my team (hi Tami) can be like a pack of Ninja's then we can achieve all the success in the Whole World! You've never seen a poor Ninja before, they don't ever have to clock in, or ask for a bathroom break. I'm a Ninja!!!!

NINJA!!!!................POWER!!!!

Motivation from Troop Beverly Hills

2008-09-16T16:53:00.000-07:00

MAKE IT BIG! "Have a little faith in yourself, and everything that you do."

This is an amazing idea. I'm totally going to get a group together and do a performance at the college to recruit all the awesome college students!

The LIST

2008-09-14T15:46:00.000-07:00

So, I've been really busy this week. I've been working on my list. The list is the #1 Fast Start to Millionaire Step in the level 1 Associate phase.
My list is several pages long, like I said, that's what I've been doing all week is building my list. Someone gave me a great idea to take the business cards out of the fish bowls at restaurants.(You know the ones that people enter to win a free lunch). Business people really understand the Building Wealth Steps to Success, so I have added a few Fish Bowl's full of people to my list. It took a while to collect them because my bike got a flat.

I have well over 1,000 names to contact so I'm going to 'my office' all week to work. I found this great hotel with a business area, and it's going to be great to feel like a real working women with my 3 ring binder full of contacts and sign up sheets, I'm sure to sign up at least 20 people!

Here are a few people I have on my list:

1 My Mother: Dream stealer. She told me it wasn't very responsible to put so much stuff on a credit card.

2 My Father: Thanks dad for the money, I swear I'll pay it back! Plus the money you lent us for fixing the car. I invested the money in more DVD's. I'm sure to triple the money and buy a new car!

3 My Brother: Dream stealer. Tells me he thinks a part time job would pay the bills and I could take night school classes. Obviously he "doesn't get it".

4 My neighbor(s): I put a DVD in everyone's mail box with an invite to my Business Open House tomorrow. I asked them all to bring a refreshment so that they have to come.

5 My kids' school teachers: Everyone knows school teachers need more money. I wonder what grades my school kids would get if the teachers helped make me a millionaire and I got lots of commissions!

6 kids' school administrators: I hadn't though tof them. I sent back some XiuAmKuinox dvds in the fundraiser pouch instead of coupon book money. THIS is how to fund education.

7 My husband's boss' wife: (It'll be like job security! If I get her in my downline she has to do what I tell her!)

8 My husband's coworkers and families: Note to self: Hubby's company party is coming up - I've got to order my materials now.

9 Anyone whose thrown me a shower: Of course

10 My church leader: Just because you're spiritual doesn't mean you have to be poor!

11 My high school guidance counselor: (The one that thought I wouldn't amount to anything? She'll see when only 3 years out of highschool I've quit my job - because I'm just 2 legs in my downline, plus 15 XiuAmKuinox points away from being a Manager. I can't wait to see the look on HER face!)

To My MILLIONAIRE MOMMY Teamies! (hi Tracy)
Make your list NOW! Remember TNT - Today Not Tomorrow!

Team meeting at the Library Thursday-
Must have list of 1000 or more people with phone numbers.
Business Dress ONLY
NO KIDS
(meet on the benches in front of the restrooms)

DREAM BIGGER THAN LIFE!

Act as IF!

2008-09-10T13:32:00.000-07:00

Today I went to a business luncheon. I have put out over 1000 fliers at the WalMart parking lot, and went to the mall to pass them out. I got kicked out of the mall but, "Whatever it takes". They obviously don't understand that I'm going to be a millionaire, and when I go back to the mall wearing my Prada purse, and Gucci shoes... won't they be sorry. They don't know who they're talking to!

The luncheon was AWESOME. I didn't have anyone show up, but my trainer's sister came and so I got to practice the business overview. The energy was amazing, and I could tell that if I had had a guest there they would've definitely signed up.

My new Banana Republic suit is gorgeous. I know, I don't have the money right now for it but, my new credit card covered it and plus, I'm going to have the money to pay it off with all my new customers this week. My trainer taught me to "Act as IF" so I got a new suit and it helps me feel like a millionaire.

On my way home from a luncheon I met a girl at the cross walk and gave her a DVD, brochure, tape cassette, sign up contract, and a training book. Good thing I just got a new carrying case for my bike or else I probably wouldn't have had everything I needed to give her. She said she would come to the luncheon next week. Maybe I'll do a 3-way call with her tonight.

Got to get my kids from day care. It's awesome being a working mom, I've always dreamed of this life, and suddenly I'm in it!

Remember, "If you love what you do , and do what you love, you'll never work a day in your lifetime."

Attitude is EVERYTHING!

2008-09-08T09:43:00.000-07:00

I'm back from the most life changing weekend of my life! Yes, even more life changing than when I got married or had my children. This last weekend was more terrific than I could possibly ever explain. You just have to be there. I ended up not having to sleep at the YMCA a bunch of girls let me sleep on the floor in their hotel room. There were 15 other girls all crammed on the floor, WHATEVER IT TAKES! I stuffed my fanny pack full of the continental breakfast to last me the whole day.

NO MORE STINKIN' THINKIN'! I bought all 10 videos! I borrowed money from my upline, but I knew I would be able to win the money that night at the nickel slots. I ended up not having time to play, because I had to listen to the tape set that my friend loaned me about team building through Postcards and fliers. I have my flier all ready designed. So this week I'll take my kids with me to Wal Mart parking lot and put them on the cars. I can't wait to start getting all the phone calls.

My trainer got me an extra Executive Director tag, so I got to sit at the very front with all the millionaires. I felt like a millionaire! I wasn't able to bring much since I rode my bike. I felt a little silly in my wind breaker and bike shorts, but I just envisioned a beautiful suit and shiny shoes and its amazing what visualization can do.

They gave millions away in suitcases! I know that I will be walking across that stage next time. I went to DI first thing this morning and got an old suit case and filled it with fake money. It will sit on my kitchen table until I have the real thing.

I've got to get back to work drawing and cutting my fliers.
Have the most $ucce$$ful day of your life!!!!!!!!

Remember: "If you love what you do and love what you are, you'll never work a day ever".

National Convention!!!

2008-09-03T06:38:00.000-07:00

Last night at midnight I received a call about attending the National Convention.
I don't have a lot of time to explain, I have to pack and apply for a new credit card to pay for my trip. I don't have a car and don't have the money for a plane ticket so, I'll be riding my bike. I have to leave today to be able to get there by Friday. I'll just stay at the YMCA and eat PB&J the whole time. My kids are going to stay with my neighbor, she has a 10 year old that can watch them during the day.

The video is not the company I'm with, but I've been told it's going to be even better. They are giving away over 10 million dollars to people just like me and if I'm not there then I won't be successful.

So, whatever it takes. Plus, if all I have to do is show up and I'll be a millionaire in 1 year, that is awesome.

I had to call in sick to work. I do daycare for 8 kids out of my home. I really am 'sick', sick of my job. Plus, I'm sure all the moms have back up sitters anyway. I've got to start acting like a millionaire, so no more wiping runny noses and poopy bums for me. Soon, I'll be able to hire someone to do that even for my own kids.

"If you do what you love, and love what you do, you'll love working every day in your life"

Millionaire Mommy September 2009 1:30pm!!!! Oh, yeah!

One phone call=Millionaire Mommy

2008-09-01T20:03:00.000-07:00

This evening I got a phone call from an Executive Director. He said that my friend, Shelly had told him about me. "You sound like a really sharp person. We are expanding our company and wondering if you keep your income options open?"he said. It was like an answer to my prayers. My bank account just reached -$10 today and I didn't know what I was going to do. He invited me to a company overview. Shelly came to pick me up. I met her at the Library Story Time last week.
After the 3 most exhilarating hours of my life I called my dad to loan me the $299 that I needed to start my very own company. I know I'll be able to pay him back by the end of the week with the money that I'll make.
If a single mom with 6 kids can become an Executive Director in only 1 month, I can do it even faster.
I'm starting at the very top of the pyramid and so I won't have to even work that much. Just invite my friends and family to the company overviews and they'll do the work for me!!!
I called my friend on the way home, it was kind of late so I just left a message telling her all about the new company and that she's got to do it with me. She needs money even worse than me, if you can imagine that. Shelly drove me to her house so I could put a DVD under her door.
I'll call her in the morning and make sure she got it.

My new phrase is "If you love what you do, and do what you love, you'll never have to work a day in your life"

Oh, and I'm going to work on being more positive, so when people ask me how I'm doing I'll say, "Good and getting better" hence my blog title! he he.